Make sure that you know what you are talking about.Because, if you don't, well, they'll catch it, and will take that against you.Why would they be so gushing to other women in the toilet if they’re secretly in competition with each other? “The alpha female may be the biggest threat yet she’s also the one with whom women want to align.Being close to her gives status and they do so through flattery,” says Sweet, in such a matter of fact tone I can't help but think I'm talking to a natural history expert about mating in the wild.“Firstly it’s only natural to compare yourself as it gives you a point of reference which can be reassuring.
Quiz her on her favorite pastimes, interests and she will be more than happy to share her pursuits of interest with you.
Prod her about her views on live-in relationships, infidelity, etc., and the conversation will keep flowing. Ask her what her childhood was like, and what her family is like.
If you have developed a good rapport with her and if you think you'll do a good job handling her emotional outbursts, then you can ask her about her previous relationships and how she dealt with them.
If you sense even slight awkwardness from the girl's end, be smart and change the topic pronto by having a light conversation! It is another dependable conversation starter with a girl. You don't need to be as attentive as you would have to be in person. (don't go overboard, or you'll become the "good friend".).
Almost all girls keep tabs on the latest happenings in the entertainment arena, be it music, movies, television and the latest gossip on the celebrities. And you can say things that you truly want, without worrying about how you look while saying it. Talk about the new restaurant nearby, that you both need to visit soon..